I normally love when those moments happen...you know what moments I'm talking about. Those moments where a couple who recently broke up, suddenly run into each other unexpectedly. That moment when someone realizes you've been watching them(of course in a non creepy sorta way). My favorite is when you know someone A) wants to ask you out or B) tell you that they have feelings for you. I love akward moments for other people or for myself even if its in a lite hearted way.
This weekend a few moments happened, but not in the fun haha. That was ridiculous sort of way. My roommate and I decided to have some people over on friday night to have some beer and eat some food and just generally hang out. Nothing too spectacular. Let me tell you the story leading up to the moment. I decided to send out a bulletin over a popular internet friends meeting place. I however forgot that a few people on my friends list weren't people I knew in real life. But even then, I didn't think it was a big deal. OH, I was mistaken. Perhaps naive. Well, in said bulletin, I stated a time and the address of said "party".
Let's jump ahead to Saturday night. WOohoo!! I'm excited some friends are coming over to hang out. We cleaned up the house a bit. I made some food...some good(chocolate chip cookies), some bad(brownies and mac and cheese experiment). My friend Scott came a little earlier than everyone else. YAY!! So, that was fun. We were just sitting and talking, making cookies. Good times! There's a knock at the front door and I expect it to be this guy Cort who I've been "hanging out with" for awhile. So I open the door thinking it was him, but no. It was this guy whom was essentially a stranger to me and my friends. The look on my face had to be priceless. Absolutely priceless! I realized it after looking at him for about 30 seconds with my mouth open.
I'll explain the story about this fella. On said web internet community, you can request to be people's friends and they can approve or deny you. For a brief period of time, I was approving anyone who sent me a friend request, but didn't communicate with any of them. Fast forward several months. My roommate and I worked at this summer day camp for these city kids and we really needed to drink (large amounts of alcohol) after dealing with some of these "children" for 9 hours. We headed to Magazine st. and ate at Nacho Mama's. WHo should be our waiter other than this guy who I had "befriended" on myspace. He's a little odd....to say the least. But whatever I can play along with this for a little while till we leave and head to a bar. He's talking to us about our personal lives, feeling one girls shirt, sitting at the table with us and generally acting like he's our friend. and being a bit creepy at the same time. So we're done eating and we are leaving, well that wasn't too painful.
May I ask this question now. Who in the world does that? seriously!! He didn't bring a friend even as like a buffer. and even that still...it wasn't a party like music and tons of people. It was meant to be just people hanigng out. Just a few people. So it was great and yet frustrating to see the look of absolute confusion on people's faces as they entered and realized one of these people just doesn't belong. Eventually he did leave, I think after he got the hint when people kept leaving the room that he just entered.
Another fine moment..well moments. Tiffany and Cort. Yes, you've heard him name before. He was the for-mentioned guy I've had a thing for. Yes, this "thing" I've had for him went back pre-tiffany. Apparently, he also had these feelings but mangaed to somehow sleep with her in the meantime. Well, he slept with her a few times in the interm. Yet, he still likes me and wants to be with me. Hmmm!! weird.
Things didn't end too well with the two of them and part it was blamed on me. Sadly, I had nothing to do with it at all. In fact I stayed so far away from it all to save a little face. So she feels weird around me and I apparently feel weird around the two of them. The drunker Tiffany got the more shots she took at Cort. About his sexuality and manhood. Real mature for a girl of her age.
OH, yeah Cort had been saying he was going to crash here after that night. Cool, that's fine. we have a couch. ;) Tiffany comes in saying she's crashing on the couch. Great, freaking great!! these two are going to fight over the damn couch. Fine, one can sleep in my room. Tiffany or cort..I dont' care. Well, I do have my preference but I'm not starting anything. Cort ended sleeping with me in my room while Tiffany got the couch. It actually worked out quite well and hopefully she doesn't think anything happened.
More moments to come. If you've read my previous blogs....I"m sure you haven't. You know about my friend and his long distance "relationship". Well, she came to visit about a month ago and that didn't go so well. She ended up being a little crazy. He broke up with her. HALLLELUJAH!! She keeps calling and he answers and the shit starts all over again. WHen she bought her plane ticket for the first trip she decided it was going to go swimmingly and go ahead and buy the second ticket. (she's not so clever). Meanwhile, he and I have been spending alot of time together and I'm thinking that someday I'd like to date him. Not at the moment but someday and I don't want her scarring him for life.
Somehow she guilted him into seeing her(his words, not mine). They went out and got beignets and coffee(the thing we usually do). Then the next night he took her to a wedding reception for a highschool friend of his. Freakin Frackin idiot!!! Then deletes her from being there and lies about friday night. So, my feelings are hurt because my best friend lied to me. Stood me up. and hung out with that one girl...that one girl that is the worst in the world for him. I don't get it. I really don't. I'm not sure what I should do. I talked to him of course. Bitched him out a little. But I'm going to take a little time away from him and let it all die down. It exhausts me. I hate talking about Taryn(that perticular girl). I get annoyed with her calling him while we're hanging out. I'm just done with it all and him apparently for a little while.
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